THE TIMING OF IT ALL

Read this in femina , long time back

Emotional vulnerability can significantly romanticize what is other wise a . Love is after all a mutual satisfaction of requirements. There are certain depressing times in your life when you emotional needs are heightened. The person who is able to lend support becomes the catalyst for the change you need. By the time you have equipped yourself to these difficulties, you have again outgrown your emotional needs and its time to move on. However the fact that you have dealt with your difficulty successfully always remain associated with the person who brought this about. It is therefore only natural to revive pleasant memories about such a person in times of distress and loneliness…….Love lost can be painful experience. Losing it to distance, chance or circumstance has the power to open your eyes to the wonder of life. It befriends you at the most crucial turning point of your life and helps you negotiate this bend. Whatever it is losing your love can be a strange experience, too fleeting to be permanent fixation, yet too lasting to be totally forgotten. It does not invade your present like an obsession; it only tiptoes around it waiting to whisk you into the past sometimes through the whiff of perfume on someone passing you on the road or through the strains of an old loved song.