DOSTI KI HAI, NIBHANI TO PADEGI !!

A very famous dialogue from the movie “maine pyar kiya”

Recently while surfing t.v. , I caught the movie “ Maine pyar kiya “ after a long time. I have seen the movie innumerable times but that day somehow, really felt the movie, specially the part where it is shown that how a boy and a girl can be friends. The concept of a girl and a boy becoming friends was initiated by this movie and showed it so aptly.

The movie, where in I managed to see only 20 minutes or so , made me really think of a friend of mine who is not of the same gender as mine but still we are the best of the friends and I guess it is only people from two opposite genders can be good and real friends. I don’t say that people from the same gender don’t turn out to be good friends but, somewhere down the line there will be feelings like jealousy, insecurity that will prevail even if they don’t accept it. One reason for such belief may be probably because I haven’t been lucky to have a real best friend who is of the same gender, I would love to have one such friend who is a girl but somehow, every time I come close to a girl who is a friend of mine, I see that the person isn’t keeping friendship from the heart , I better choose not to go too further, somehow this doesn’t happen with boys.

Another good thing about friends from the opposite gender is that they may turn into lovers and probably in to soul mates and life partners and if not, they will remain the best of each other’s friends all through their life. There would never be the issues like- ego, jealousy between them where as both would always think good for the other one and would even understand the other one in a better one.

Don’t know what prompted me to write a post on this, somehow I was very much touched by the way the friendship is shown in the movie – extremely pure and unconditional and innocent.