a conversation

It was really feeling cold inside the rooms so thought to have a stroll on the terrace where the sunlight really felt extremely good(shardi ki dhoop is always beautiful) and we ( my colleague and me) were just observing the beautiful tress around us that we never actually gave a second. Anyway, suddenly we saw a young mom carrying her child it was a very lovely child and suddenly the conversation begun as to how many young parents specially the mothers literally become fed up of their young child. I have observed many such mothers who just ignore the kids like anything and no longer pay attention to them which I think is the worst thing any mother can do. And mind you education has nothing to do with it. Even educated mothers ignore when their little one shower them with endless questions and it may make us laugh that some of them even are waiting for others to take care of their child like they go to their neighbours place or relatives place so that for a while others will become busy with her kid , this will give some time free for the mom. The little one desperately seeks the moms attention where as she is busy in her god knows what world. I mean how can one do this. Don't they understand that a child need attention and an ear that listens to them. Some times I think for such people getting married and giving birth to children is like the daily chores ( doing it just for the heck of it ). and when the child grows up and don't share everything with their parents , they say that beta i m like your friend. How can you expect to be friendly when you weren't a friend when he or she badly needed you. Thank God my mom wasn't such , she gave me the attention , love , care and time that was necessary. shes like my friend. I still remember how my talks were important , even how stupid talks that were. One thing is sure I m going to love my child like anything and m sure for a minute also will not be bore of him / her.